fix: SMALLINT addition overflow should error instead of silently wrapping

[xiedeyantu]

Which issue does this PR close?

• Closes SMALLINT addition overflow should error instead of silently wrapping #21318 .

Rationale for this change

DataFusion was silently wrapping on integer arithmetic overflow instead of returning an error. For example:

SELECT CAST(32767 AS SMALLINT) + CAST(2 AS SMALLINT);
-- Before: -32767  (silent wrapping)
-- After:  Error: Arithmetic overflow: Overflow happened on: 32767 + 2

This behavior is incorrect. DuckDB and PostgreSQL both return an error on integer overflow, which is the expected behavior for SQL engines.

What changes are included in this PR?

• BinaryExpr::new (binary.rs): Change the default value of fail_on_overflow from false to true. This causes +, -, and * on integer types to use Arrow's checked kernels instead of the wrapping variants, returning an error on overflow.
• Update snapshot assertions in dynamic_filters.rs and physical_planner.rs to reflect the new default.
• Update explain_analyze.slt to use slt:ignore for output_bytes on integer arithmetic projections, since Arrow's checked kernels may allocate a validity buffer, slightly changing the reported byte size.
• Add sqllogictest cases in operator.slt covering overflow for TINYINT, SMALLINT, INT, and BIGINT with +, -, and *.

Are these changes tested?

Yes.

• New query error tests in operator.sltverify that overflow on all integer widths (Int8, Int16, Int32, Int64) returns an error for addition, subtraction, and multiplication.
• Existing tests test_add_with_overflow, test_subtract_with_overflow, and test_mul_with_overflowin binary.rscontinue to pass (they already used with_fail_on_overflow(true)explicitly).

Are there any user-facing changes?

Yes. Integer arithmetic (+, -, *) on types TINYINT, SMALLINT, INT, and BIGINT now returns an error on overflow instead of silently wrapping. This aligns DataFusion's behavior with DuckDB and PostgreSQL.

[xiedeyantu]

The datafusion-testing repository should be updated to align with this change. I have forked the datafusion-testing project on my GitHub and submitted a apache/datafusion-testing#18. I'm not sure about the merging process. The current step is to update the submodule using the datafusion-testing PR.