Trigger Apple release publishing on final tags

[JacobSzwejbka]

Summary:

• Trigger the Apple workflow on final release tags like vX.Y.Z.
• Use the tag version for Apple framework zip and SwiftPM versioning instead of adding a nightly date suffix.
• Allow final tag runs to perform the real S3 framework upload and SwiftPM branch push.

I have no idea how to test this

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❌ 1 New Failure, 2 Unrelated Failures

As of commit 8c32432 with merge base 88faab2 ():

NEW FAILURE - The following job has failed:

• pull / android / run-emulator (gh)
  The process '/usr/bin/sh' failed with exit code 1

BROKEN TRUNK - The following jobs failed but were present on the merge base:

👉 Rebase onto the `viable/strict` branch to avoid these failures

• pull / unittest / macos / macos-job (gh) (trunk failure)
  ##[error]The operation was canceled.
• pull / unittest-editable / macos / macos-job (gh) (trunk failure)
  ##[error]The operation was canceled.

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