Technical debt changes in indexing functions

[ndgrigorian]

This PR cleans up indexing functions

• Renames Python bindings from usm_ndarray_take and usm_ndarray_put to py_take and py_put to improve consistency with the rest of dpctl
• Removes indexing mode macros, opting for a ternary check instead
• Refactors to break up _populate_kernel_params internal function to improve code readability [WIP]

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Array API standard conformance tests for dpctl=0.19.0dev0=py310h93fe807_537 ran successfully.
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Skipped: 118

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Array API standard conformance tests for dpctl=0.19.0dev0=py310h93fe807_537 ran successfully.
Passed: 895
Failed: 1
Skipped: 118

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coverage: 86.381%. remained the same
when pulling d409117 on technical-debt-indexing-fns
into bc7a739 on master.

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Array API standard conformance tests for dpctl=0.20.0dev0=py310h93fe807_115 ran successfully.
Passed: 913
Failed: 1
Skipped: 154